Our Responsibilities on the
Centennial of Women’s Right To Vote
I was unfriended for posting that
Marianne Williamson supports vaccinations. It was during the 2019 political
campaign when social media insisted she was a fat-shamer and an
“anti-vaxxer.”One of my intelligent
friends blocked me when I insisted that Big Cat Rescue/Tiger King’s “villain” Carole
Baskin was loved by the Cat Writers’ community.
The City of Boston excommunicated
Anne Hutchinson, in 1638, because she taught religion in her home.In her trial, the church leader that,
initially, helped midwife Anne bury a stillborn baby, betrayed her confidence.
He testified against her.
The “witches” of the Middle Ages
disturbed the male-led world order as many were midwives who brought new babies
into the world. They were accused of eating babies and having their cats sneak
into religious leaders’ bedrooms to infiltrate their dreams!
I would have been burned or hanged
as a witch.I love cats, and have spoken
up for myself. From firing an assistant who bullied a black man to pointing out
a dear friend’s hypocrisy, I’ve angered friends whom I’ve confronted!
I’m grateful to be alive today,
thanks to my mom, ancestors, and inspirational big sisters like Gloria Steinem,
and those activists who fought for women before her.I’m glad that people like me are speaking up,
and setting records straight, because we’re getting great work done in honest
and powerful ways. We care about people, and many men and women know it.
I think that because the “crazy”
women have purposeful lives and reflect historical archetypes of the “witch”/ ”mother”/
”sage,” these females are scorned even by other women. Carrie Chapman Catt was
a leader of the women’s suffrage movement that helped women the right to vote
100 years ago, August 26, 1920.First
Ladies Eleanor Roosevelt and Michelle Obama are powerful and magical women, but
regarded negatively by those with too much time on their hands and too little
brains in their heads.
50 years after it was first
introduced to Congress in 1971 (after almost 50 years of the first draft!),
we’re on the verge of ratifying it to the United States Constitution. If it weren’t
for the neighborhood feminist, who called me “Ms.” Leighton, I might not have
voted for it.It was my first time at
the polls, and I didn’t know that I could be self-dependent being so new in the
working world.
Fortunately, nobody made my way
easy, and I adapted, taking care of business. What keeps us working is that we’re
here to serve the planet and its people. I developed a professional showbiz
career on my terms both as an artist and music services person.
News of corruption, sexual
misconduct, using government funds for personal use from national heroes,
allegedly responsible leaders, and public figures coincided with the declining
physical health of our world. We yell at our neighbors.We saw our sisters lose careers if they spoke
up against on-the-job abuse.Some of us
put them down, instead of going the extra mile to find out what was hurting
them.
One of the reasons we still
struggle is that the truth-telling woman has been ostracized since the
beginning of time.
Smear campaigns… gossip…
rumors.Marianne Williamson posted on
her social media, August 5, 2019 “There’s an ancient strain of misogyny that
labels any women who doesn’t toe the line with the status quo of her time as
‘crazy’ or ‘dangerous.’ We will not have full empowerment of women until we
face that head on.”
Gloria Steinem speaks of the
importance of building up other women, not breaking them down. She never felt
she could succeed alone. One of my showbiz online forums had a man posting that
the Chicks were insincere and pandering to the public for dropping the
offensive “Dixie” from their name.A
woman spoke up for the performers, “We should be happy they’re supporting blacks.”
When he called them “irrelevant,” a lesbian posted that she appreciated their
support all these years to the LGBTQ community, and that they collaborated with
Taylor Swift. We can show the same support for our friends when they’re
disrespected.
None of us like gaslighting, nor
people telling lies about us.Even if
there’s readily accessible proof of our innocence, we’ll see dishonest
accusations. Maybe the bully is overwhelmed by the amount of content
online.Then again, perhaps the attacker
has anger at the world, and wants to start a fight by belittling others.
Women need to speak up for
themselves, especially if they’re the only ones willing to stand up for
themselves!
We need to speak up for one
another.I first heard about Carole
Baskin being bullied on the Netflix series “Tiger King” from Paw Project
activist, veterinarian Dr. Jennifer Conrad.I was appalled as the Big Cat Rescue owners had been a great source when
I wrote about jaguars and needed photos for CatFancy.Tigers In America owner William Nimmo
(tigersinamerica.org) said her rescue is a top tier animal sanctuary. Animal
Planet’s Jackson Galaxy posted support on social media. She’s admitted on her
website that she made mistakes in her early years, when she bred wild cats. But
she moved on, and became a responsible animal rescuer. Part of her mission is
lobbying Washington, DC politicians to pass HR 1380 and S2561:“The Big Cat
Safety Act.” The goal is to diminish breeding and trade of wild cats.
Famous “witches” are Hillary
Clinton, the Chicks (now and when they were Dixie), technology geeks,
bodybuilders, Madam CJ Walker, Cher….Even
with deliberate adversity, these women seem to magically prove themselves
because they’re smart, productive, and not involved with smear campaigns.They’re busy making the world a better place,
including doing their homework and being there for their friends.
These women work in mysterious
ways. They know their talents and purpose because they served the public, even
making others powerful.They’re so
connected with the universe because they play and work with honesty, working
for inclusion, especially for the underdogs....or abandoned cats.
According
to Esquire Magazine, this evolved from a game that Marcel Proust helped
popularize in 19th-century parlor soirees. People would take part purely as a
party entertainment, though supposedly they often walked away with a greater
insight into themselves. I can’t guarantee that that outcome, but it is fun and
what the heck, we could all use a bit of amusement and/or enlightenment, so why
not?
What
is your idea of perfect happiness? Close
to what I have, where I can sleep with cats, write, dance, eat great food, but
also hang out with my neighbors and friends again!
What
is your greatest fear?Homelessness
What is the trait you most deplore in
yourself? I believed in people that weren’t worth it.
What is the trait you most deplore in others?Cruelty,
not listening
Which living person do you most admire? Besides
my friends, Oprah.
What is your greatest extravagance? Italian
food on Arthur Avenue, and working in the recording studio
What is your current state of mind? Thoughtful. Just being my own angel.
What do you consider the most overrated virtue? Greed("Greed is good."-The Movie, "Wall Street")
On
what occasion do you lie? To protect friends. Sometimes to myself, especially if I want to achieve something the universe seems to be saying "no" about.
What do you most dislike in your appearance? I’m
fat, and would love to be trimmer.
What living person do you most despise? Of
the people I know, I’d say there are about dozen people that bullied me when I
wanted to mend fences with my artist.
What is the quality you most like in a man? listening
What is the quality you most like in a woman? Same
thing.We should be encouraging each
other.
Which words or phrases do you most overuse? Folks,
Meow, Woof, Joe.....
What or who is the greatest love of your life? Myself
When and where were you happiest? When
I’m in bed with my cats
Which talent would you most like to have? The
right touch when I play piano or guitar.Being able to play those instruments coherently and fluently.Even on kalimba, I’m jagged.
If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? I
want to be more lean.I work at it, and I know it'll be amazing, someday.
What do you consider your greatest achievement? Believing
that we can all create opportunities for ourselves.It’s possible to make a profit as a writer.
If you were to die and come back as a person or thing, what would it be? A
neurologist.I’ve planned my next
life.
Where would you most like to live? Right
here in the Bronx!
What is your most treasured possession? My
current computer and my poetry book "The Leighton Explosion."
What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? People
deliberately being destructive and hurting or killing others. That comes from making assumptions and prejudice.
What is your favorite occupation? Of
me, I’d say creative and artist development, including myself.
What is your most marked characteristic? My
voice and my smile.
What do you most value in your friends? They understand where I’m coming from.
Who are your favorite writers? Bruce
Lee, Nelson Mandela, Dale Carnegie, King Solomon, Susie Rakowski, Elliott
Murphy
Who is your hero from fiction?Xena and Nancy Drew!!!
Which historical figure do you most identify with?Frank
Zappa
Who are your heroes in real life? My
friends Joe, Joe, Phoebe, Sharon, Ian, Larry, Hank, Greg, Catalina & her family
What are your favorite names?Renee
What is it the you most dislike? When
I was younger, I didn’t see my beauty. Now it's just my weight that I dislike. I've embraced all of me. I understand the weight issue, and am working on it.
What is your greatest regret? That I didn't always know how to work things out with people, and I'm still not succeeding with it.
How would you like to die? After
I got all my work done.
What is your motto? "It's not what you know, but who you know. And if you don't know 'em, go out and meet 'em!!!"